10.07.09

A love affair with J Mendel

Posted in Fashion at 6:37 pm by missjunebug

J Mendel Crystal Blue Gown Spring 2010

J Mendel Crystal Blue Gown Spring 2010

Sigh. Isn’t this dress to die for? I wish it could be an affordable bridesmaid dress instead of a thousands-of-dollars designer dress. And it’s in my color, too! Because I can’t get enough of the thing, here’s Kate Walsh in the dress at the Emmy Awards:

Kate Walsh wearing an ice blue gown from J Mendel's 2010 Spring Collection at the 2009 Emmy Awards.

Kate Walsh wearing an ice blue gown from J Mendel's 2010 Spring Collection at the 2009 Emmy Awards.

My favorite bridesmaid dress color is the oft-misunderstood seaglass, a cousin to the color every bridesmaid dreads: seafoam, which Mastercard ever-so-memorably paid tribute to here.

Searching for a bridesmaid dress in sizes ranging from 2 to 22 has proven to be one of the most hair-pullingly frustrating experiences of my bridal career. Why, oh, WHY must you stop at size 16, J. Crew? And, oh, your size 18 is so close, Ann Taylor, but no cigar!

It’s left me with very few options that are affordable, and by affordable I mean in the $150-ish range. There’s David’s Bridal and Alfred Angelo, but I just don’t love the colors/styles. Same with Alexia, Aria, and the multitude of others whose websites and salons I’ve scoured. It seems the colors I love are elusive and found in a select few places, read: J Mendel, Priscilla of Boston and Melissa Sweet, among a few others. Here are the colors I lust over, “dream” and “seaglass”:

Melissa Sweet bridesmaid dress in dream

Melissa Sweet bridesmaid dress in dream


Priscilla of Boston bridesmaid dress in seaglass

Priscilla of Boston bridesmaid dress in seaglass

But unfortunately, after trying on the 20+ styles from MS and PB that come in those colors, I could not find one that would be very flattering on a plus size figure. The fabric was either too clingy or too stiff (taffeta or silk faille) that it ballooned away from the body, which would make even the skinniest stick figure model appear preggers.

The one style that would be flattering doesn’t come in my color, so it would mean going to a seamstress to custom make the dresses, a time consuming and rather unpredictable endeavor.

What about you? Have you have any difficulty outfitting your ‘maids? Any success stories or recommended websites for a wide range of sizes?

10.06.09

Tea and a pomander, anyone?

Posted in DIY Projects at 8:48 pm by missjunebug

Little balls of loveliness, created from two things I love: tea, and food coloring (it reminds me of Easter!) You just take some brewed tea, add a few drops of food coloring, and take standard white tissue paper pre-cut into 10″ X 5″ stacks. After following Martha’s instructions, I got this lovely thing:

Custom dyed tissue pomander

Custom dyed tissue pomander


Pretty, no?

I even saved time by skipping the hot glue. I only glued about 10 of the 30 flowers required for this ball. I spaced those flowers out to act as anchors to the unglued flowers. The reason I did this was because hot glue is not my forte, to say the least. I’m always left with burned fingers and swathed in a cobweb of the shiny stuff that extends from my project to the table to my appendages. Plus, the hot glue melted the styrofoam ball quite a bit. And the wire holds the flowers in plenty good enough.

Here are the instructions to dye the paper:

I have found two stacks of Michaels white tissue paper ($1.79) makes a little more than two balls. However, I used between 30 and 35 flowers per ball, which is quite a lot but gives it a nice, dense flower-full look. :)

*Measure tissue paper into 10″ X 5″ rectangles and cut out stacks.
*Boil a small pot of water, add two English (black) tea bags and let steep two minutes. Add about four drops of red food dye. I tested a single sheet of tissue in this brew, blow dried to check color, and was satisfied. It appeared almost white, but later on when four layers of paper are together in the flower it appeared the prettiest blush color.
*Take about one-inch tall stacks of the pre-cut tissue paper and place on cookie sheets.
*Pour enough dye into cookie sheets to cover tissue paper.
*Let sit for 10 minutes.
*Carefully pour excess water out.
*CAREFULLY pick up sopping wet stacks of dyed tissue and place on wire cooling racks or drape over backs of metal (or any material that won’t be damaged by water) chairs.
*The next day, take outside to dry in the sun.

OK, the tutorial to make the flowers can be found via the Martha’s link above, but here it is modified as per Vintage Glam’s instructions:

1. Cut your paper into 10″ X 5″ pieces.
2. Cut your wire (I used 22 gauge). About 4″ long pieces.
3. Stack four sheets of tissue.
4. Make stacks into 3/8″-wide accordion folds.
5. Bend wire in half, slip over center of folded tissue and twist to secure. Trim the ends of the tissue.
6. Separate layers, pulling away up to center one at a time.
7. Secure ribbon into 5″ styrofoam ball via wire FIRST.
8. Start poking wire flower ends all the way into styrofoam ball, spacing about an inch to an inch and a half apart.
9. Be careful not to smoosh flowers when you get toward the end, although they can be easily fluffed up again.

BONUS TIP:

10. Secure ribbon with wire first, and I used a skewer poked into the ball and then secured to the table with a small vice in order to keep the ball secure while I plunged wire flowers into it. This becomes useful when most of the flowers are in, and if you’re holding the ball you end up smooshing flowers. Not so if it’s perched atop a little jerry-rigged stand.

Also, check out Bee Miss Ramen’s similar post on pomanders for lots of “fluffity” ball eye candy!

09.16.09

Peach and Aqua

Posted in Inspiration Boards at 1:22 pm by missjunebug

Here is an inspiration board I created featuring our wedding colors, peach and aqua. The peach along with the homey and handmade details bring warmth to the pale aqua palette. My pops and I have decided to undertake an insane amount of DIY, and are already hard at work making many elements you’ll see at the wedding by hand, including 16 long rustic farm tables, 8 walnut burl benches (from the orchard across the street from the house where I grew up), an arbor made out of driftwood that came ashore at my grandma’s house, a dance floor, table numbers and wedding signage. My dad is the best!!!

Peach and light aqua board

Credits: Style Me Pretty (12), Wedding Bee (8), Project Wedding (2), Jennifer Longaway (4), Beth Helmstetter (6), Jose Villa (4), Melissa Sweet (2), Luxury & Lifestyle (2), the knot (2)

09.02.09

Trying to be like Lisa Vorce

Posted in Personalizing Your Wedding tagged , , at 2:59 am by missjunebug

I’ve been obsessed with Lisa Vorce, of Oh, How Charming! and her wedding design for a good long while. I was lucky enough to see her in person at a Bloomingdale’s event at Fashion Island in Orange County last spring, and early this summer I interviewed her for an Entrepreneur.com article. The greatest advice she imparted regarding building a unique wedding design was this:

“Jot down all the things you love, whatever they may be, and find a way to incorporate them into your day.”

I don’t know why, but it took several months for that to really sink in. I would visit Style Me Pretty or Lisa Vorce’s website each day, and each day I would see something totally unique, and wonder, “Now why couldn’t I have thought of that?” After about 20-plus times saying that to myself, I threw up my hands, dug out a piece of scratch paper and began to jot down all of the things that Mr. Junebug and I love:

Paper chains (the ones you build to count down until Christmas)
Line dried laundry
Finding arrowheads
Sea blue and sea green
Sea glass
Books
Puzzles
Anthropologie
Horses
Stripes
Candy
Spanish mosaics/tiles
Vintage clothes
The colors green, blush, aquamarine
Driftwood
Shells
My grandma’s centerpieces

That last one requires a brief explanation. My grandma’s house, on a lake, is the site of our wedding. In her house, on special occasions, she creates the most beautiful, detail-filled centerpieces. Often with moss, bark, shells, driftwood, and little flowers or paper cranes or other tiny, pretty things tucked into the branches.

I want centerpieces a la my grandmother.

But before I transgress into the topic of centerpieces, let me first finish my thoughts on how to channel a $250,000-plus wedding planner like Lisa Vorce: After compiling this list, and asking Mr. Junebug what his favorite things were, well, iiiiittt WHAMMY! as Champ from Anchorman would say. All sorts of ideas began a-flowin’! And, not to give away too many details, I was able to conceive a completely unique way of:

*laying out the escort cards
*seating the guests
*displaying the table numbers
*offering the cocktails
*setting up the buffet
*raising the cake
*portraying the family “heritage” photos

I’ll reveal tidbits of these design elements in good time. But let me just say for now that they all make Miss June such a happy little bug! Tell me, is it important to you to have completely unique aspects to your wedding, or do you prefer to utilize the tried-and-true?

12.01.08

A big blog’s coming my way!

Posted in Mr. Junebug at 6:52 pm by missjunebug

Never thought I’d see the day, a big blog’s coming mah way!

I’m Miss Junebug and I never thought I’d blog. But I hope to impart some northern California, wine country lovin’ to all you budget savvy brides hoping to create your special day. I plan to blog about all things wedding related, as I experience them: finding the venue, the dress, the story of how I met my man, how I’m making our wedding our own and how I’m resisting what I call the “wedding industrial complex”!

First, a little about moi! I’m a writer. I wrote for a national magazine until I decided to try freelancing. Now I spend my days planning how to start my own business (more on that later), freelance writing/editing, contemplating selling my eggs to raise money for the wedding (haha, j/k), and of course, in front of the computer surfin’ wedding blogs and sites for inspiration and escapism.

A little about Mr. Junebug. Wow, did I hit the jackpot. No, seriously, as I speak, my man has mop in hand and I never asked him to lift a finger. He is the sweetest, funniest man. He cooks every night, gives me massages and is always up for a stimulating conversation about Derrida or whether or not the subaltern can speak. He’s an intellectual. Getting his Ph.D. I am so stinking proud of him!